Has anyone done this before ?
What if they have pancake nipples?

6/13/2009 12:06:56 PM

I guess it's better than fucking people before dating them.

6/13/2009 12:14:39 PM

Nah.
I prefer to try the goods before getting in a dating situation. Cause you know if you start dating someone its going to take a while to break up with them.

6/13/2009 12:18:08 PM

Quote :

"its going to take a while to break up with them. "

are you one of those sissy guys who is scared of her mom and dad if you leave?

it takes one sentence to break up, if you are man enough

The One was never meant to end anything.

6/13/2009 12:20:58 PM

I typically will go out on a couple dates before fucking, but I definitely have to fuck before making a long-term commitment.

6/13/2009 12:21:01 PM

i agree with ^

6/13/2009 12:21:45 PM

It's like buying a car without a test drive, or getting into a contract without a 30-day out clause. Just makes no sense.

6/13/2009 12:24:06 PM

6/13/2009 12:27:05 PM

Anyone I dated before fucking, I ended up breaking up with before we ever got around to fucking.

6/13/2009 12:27:30 PM

But you'll make Jesus cry!

(Or make someone cry Jesus, ba-zing!)

6/13/2009 12:28:11 PM

Yes.

It's not a bad idea.

Never met a dude with pancake nipples.

6/13/2009 12:32:43 PM

but what is the time limit? would you date a dude for 6 months only to figure out he had a 3 inch penis?

6/13/2009 12:34:22 PM

even if you don't have sex for a few months i would expect to at least see/touch some penis

6/13/2009 12:36:10 PM

my mom and my dad waited, so i guess it could be done.



i'd have a hard time w/it though....I can wait but not till marriage.

6/13/2009 12:36:27 PM

^^i consider that the same though. if you look at the original post, it is regarding pancake nipples. you don't have to fuck to see titties

I am more taking it from the perspective of not fooling around at all

^ and at least that's what they TOLD you

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 12:38 PM. Reason : a]

6/13/2009 12:36:54 PM

oh well in that case, i don't think i'd last more than a couple weeks without fooling around

6/13/2009 12:38:59 PM

there's no way I'm dating someone for more than a few days without seeing some reproductive organs

6/13/2009 12:39:05 PM

im about 100% sure they waited....they're like super old school. Church every week, I can't sleep in the same room w/my girl if i bring one home, all that crap

6/13/2009 12:39:26 PM

you'd be surprised how often strict Christian parents were the exact opposite in their youth

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 12:41 PM. Reason : .]

6/13/2009 12:41:19 PM

my parents were super old school too, but they got married because my mom got pregnant with my oldest sister

like father like son, i suppose.

6/13/2009 12:42:36 PM

i think it depends..i dated a girl last year, we hooked up on the first date and it never worked out. Last girl I dated we never had sex and for some reason I liked her a lot more....that didn't work out either

6/13/2009 12:42:57 PM

my current GF fucked me on our second date, and that's one of the main reasons i wanted to pursue a long-term thing.

6/13/2009 12:46:15 PM

once i dated a guy for like 3 months before ever fooling around. then we did it and it was awful and i didn't like him anymore

6/13/2009 12:46:33 PM

lol ya i wondered if maybe she would be good in bed, but i knew i was pretty good and i liked her enough if she didn't know much I could teach her. She wasn't a virgin or anything, just didn't sleep w/ a lot of guys and wanted to wait. Made me really want her too

6/13/2009 12:48:23 PM

this sounds like risky business

6/13/2009 12:52:26 PM

6/13/2009 12:54:28 PM

this thread has a special place in my heart

6/13/2009 12:56:06 PM

i always feel like if i dont wait at least a few weeks to let him in my treasure box he wont respect me. and theres no point in dating a guy who thinks your a slut cause you fucked on the first date.

AND
if a guy is tryin to hard to get some really early, i think thats all he wants out of it and im like KBYE!

6/13/2009 1:05:19 PM

i should have been a dude

6/13/2009 1:06:30 PM

i def shoulda been a chick

6/13/2009 1:08:24 PM

I think the definition of dating should be expanded on here.

I mean, does dating mean "you go out on x amounts of dates before fucking"?

Or does dating mean "you are monogamous and are in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation"?

6/13/2009 1:09:23 PM

^^^they have it SO easy...

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:09 PM. Reason : $]

6/13/2009 1:09:39 PM

i vote the monogamous one...

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:10 PM. Reason : ^um there are def some perks to being a female...]

6/13/2009 1:10:31 PM

^^ hahahahaha good one.

6/13/2009 1:11:56 PM

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"my current GF fucked me on our second date"

That's because she's old. Young chicks tend to not put out as readily as older women.

6/13/2009 1:12:08 PM

perks yes...but the pros to being a guy DEF outweigh the cons

6/13/2009 1:12:27 PM

not the first date. not a month later.

i don't think i'd ever date someone for like 3 months without having sex. why? because this probably means i don't like you. and if i don't like you, i would not date you this long.

6/13/2009 1:13:01 PM

Quote :

"perks yes...but the pros to being a guy DEF outweigh the cons"

perks are called pros and women get lots of perks in this area.

6/13/2009 1:16:17 PM

Quote :

"That's because she's old. Young chicks tend to not put out as readily as older women."

lol, you might need to step your game up. I've never waited longer than a month for sex, and in most cases it was the chick that initiated it.

6/13/2009 1:16:46 PM

i just dont think it's fair guys get to sleep around without being called out on it. i'm jealous

6/13/2009 1:17:23 PM

i call out male or female whores...get your head out of your ass

6/13/2009 1:18:38 PM

^^exactly my point

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:19 PM. Reason : u]

6/13/2009 1:19:10 PM

^i call out male or female whores...get your head out of your ass

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:20 PM. Reason : point being...stop being a whore and you wouldnt have to be jealous of something so dumb

the clingy ones are usually the ones affraid of being labled a whore...cause they fuck a dude real fast hoping "hes the one" etc...usually have a high # of ppl they've had sex with

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:24 PM. Reason : .]

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:25 PM. Reason : not to mention the women that use sex to con guys into relationships]

6/13/2009 1:19:48 PM

or maybe we just like sex as much as guys?

6/13/2009 1:29:32 PM

josh maybe if you got laid you wouldn't think anyone who did was a whore!

[Edited on June 13, 2009 at 1:32 PM. Reason : ]

6/13/2009 1:32:20 PM

ok well then dont get jealous about how guys can get "away" with it...i look down on both genders...yall are sexist

6/13/2009 1:38:28 PM

i'm having sex right now, does that make me a whore?

6/13/2009 1:39:30 PM

oh my god
whore alert!

6/13/2009 1:40:20 PM

nope

it makes you a multi-tasker

6/13/2009 1:40:45 PM

fucking before dating makes a person a slut...it's up to the individual whether or not they consider it a bad thing

then again, i'm all into that "love" crap, so i'm prejudiced

6/13/2009 1:41:28 PM