How soon is too soon to change your Facebook status from In A Relationship to Single?
6/24/2009 10:58:56 PM
i wait until she changes it (like last night)
6/24/2009 10:59:58 PM
6/24/2009 11:00:10 PM
not until after the divorce goes through
6/24/2009 11:00:25 PM
you always just take your relationship status off before you put single.... it's been 6 months since i did that and i still haven't put single
6/24/2009 11:01:18 PM
i'm pretty sure that chicks with dicks have this same type of dilemma.]
6/24/2009 11:02:36 PM
why do you need to know thumper????yea i think a lot of people just don't put anything under relationship status.^ hahaha i laughed. i don't know why.[Edited on June 24, 2009 at 11:03 PM. Reason : .]
6/24/2009 11:02:44 PM
^i saw someone that changed their status today, found out they just broke up like yesterday, so i was just wondering how long you wait before you change it.
6/24/2009 11:03:58 PM
6/24/2009 11:04:03 PM
^^ oh yea. that does seem a little soon i mean, what if you want to get back together don't you leave SOME room for hope?!sidenote: i am a drunk facebook breaker upper. sometimes i run upstairs and "break up" with my boyfriend (via facebook) and in the morning we wake up and he's like..um...why aren't we in a relationship on facebook anymore. and i'm like, i don't know because you wouldn't take me to get waffle house at 2am??? or sometimes i just don't even remember the reason.doh. [Edited on June 24, 2009 at 11:06 PM. Reason : .]
6/24/2009 11:05:04 PM
hahah yeah that's what i was thinking. what if it was just a drunk moment of weakness and you realize the next day that you're meant for each other?!?! kinda embarrassing to change yourself from In A Relationship to Single and then back to In A Relationship within 48hrs.
6/24/2009 11:06:10 PM
hahaha omg. i just edited my thing to account for your "drunk moment of weakness" theorybecause that is SO mebut i've tried to cut back. because i realized how retarded it looked. ok not looked, IS. it IS retarded.[Edited on June 24, 2009 at 11:08 PM. Reason : .]
6/24/2009 11:07:48 PM
LOL i guess you can always delete the fact that you changed your relationship status right? like you can go back and delete FB statuses after you post them when you realize they were stupid
6/24/2009 11:08:50 PM
i thought you had a husband?
6/24/2009 11:10:16 PM
silliness[Edited on June 24, 2009 at 11:10 PM. Reason : ]
6/24/2009 11:10:36 PM
oh yea i forgot about that. it has been awhile since i have done it if i really broke up with someone i don't think i'd change it for a long time. or i'd just take away the relationship status section all together.
6/24/2009 11:10:56 PM
6/24/2009 11:10:59 PM
oh. i dont read on. i just jump to conclusions
6/24/2009 11:13:35 PM
6/24/2009 11:14:27 PM
how come you made a thread about it before you bothered to tell me?
6/24/2009 11:37:05 PM
when they are staying with you regularly or live with you after they get all their stuff out
6/24/2009 11:42:51 PM
I hahaed abit^^
6/24/2009 11:48:15 PM
i've only had one relationship since the advent of facebook, and i changed my status about 1 minute after breaking up with her...I was way past ready to start pursuing other women.The more important question is how long is an appropriate length of time to wait before pursuing a chick who is recently single? I mean, you look like an asshole, and opportunist, or both if you move in too soon, but a couple of times, I've waited too long and had someone else take my spot.
6/24/2009 11:52:56 PM
It really depends on whether you're using the FB status to tell your friends that you're single or if you're using the FB status to tell your ex that you're single.
6/24/2009 11:53:25 PM
If I like to watch Chicks with Dicks fuck regular women, does that make me gay?
6/24/2009 11:55:48 PM
why would you care about either of those entities? It's about telling all single members of the opposite sex that you're single.
6/24/2009 11:56:54 PM
how soon is too soon to defriend someone?
6/24/2009 11:59:05 PM
never too soon, only too late
6/25/2009 12:00:31 AM
oooh, which brings up a good question!! how soon after you break up do you defriend? or do you ever defriend? i guess some break ups end amicably, but what happens if it's a crappy break up? do you defriend immediately, or wait a few days and hope the other person doesn't notice they're suddenly down one bitter ex?]
6/25/2009 12:01:23 AM
6/25/2009 12:02:51 AM
^^^true...its hard to be like "oh well i'll just defriend you" when you were defriended first
6/25/2009 12:03:47 AM
i've only defriended a few people and none were ex-bfsmaybe that is weird but none of my relationships have ended badly enough to warrant a facebook defrienda few FRIENDSHIPS have. well one. and then some weridos from middle school who friended me and i promptly realized that they were psycho so i had to rid myself of their retarded status updates
6/25/2009 12:22:13 AM
my defriend/defriended ratio is pretty much 1:1like 3 or 4 times i've defriended someone, 3 or 4 times i've been defriended
6/25/2009 12:24:29 AM
i don't even know when i've been defriended. that is too much effort to keep up with.but i definitely defriended some bitches during the fall (election time). i mean i have a lot of conservative friends and that is fine but i can only put up with so many borderline retarded people - anyone with overly political (or more just racist/downright stupid) status updates or overly religious updates goes. so you have been warned! i mean i don't care if someone is like "the president is dumb" or "this is stupid" or whatever but when it is everyday and it is shit like "hang osama" or something, you are a goner. same with the jesus stuff. if you are constantly updating your status with bible verses and god and homosexuals and abortion then i just can't keep you around. moderation is key, people. moderation is key.
6/25/2009 12:28:09 AM
^i was going to say something about that but didnt. but i've def see the number change before...just dont know who it was, so i dont count thembut there are 5 that i know of that defriended me(dude from class, the rest wolfweb)...cause i'd search them and see we were not friends anymoreand i can think of at least 4 or 5 i've defriended...maybe one or 2 more i can't remember
6/25/2009 12:31:43 AM
yea i've seen the number change. i think one time i thought i was friends with someone and saw them tagged in a picture or something but then we weren't friends. i can't remember who it was but i definitely was like, why the heck did they defriend me. i wish i could remember. because i can't remember if i tried to friend them again.haha. one time we all defriended my roommate's exboyfriend and then tried to refriend him, he accepted, so we poked him everyday until he defriended us all again. oh facebook. how you bring a new level of lameness to my life!
6/25/2009 12:49:13 AM
haha...i also forgot to mention ppl like me that quit facebook for 4 months...that changes the number tooi think i've had 2 refriend me before after i took them off...i've tried adding one person that took me off but she declined
6/25/2009 12:52:53 AM
If you change your status before you break up, that's too soon.
6/25/2009 1:33:31 AM