my fiance and i are planning a joint bachelor / bachelorette party. we are looking to rent out a bar around here. suggestions?

we are planning on having 50-70 ppl, most likely on a sunday night.

6/24/2010 12:43:14 PM

why on God's Green Earth would you want to have a joint party?!?

doesn't that go against everything that bachelor/bachelorette parties stand for?

6/24/2010 12:45:28 PM

^ and on a Sunday night?

6/24/2010 12:47:35 PM

Isn't that what the wedding reception is??

6/24/2010 12:47:39 PM

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"joint bachelor / bachelorette party"

this is whats known as a wedding reception

^

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 12:48 PM. Reason : fucking flood control]

6/24/2010 12:48:06 PM

BTW,

http://brentroad.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=594168

6/24/2010 12:48:14 PM

you should be each others stripper too

/chitchat

highpark might be good for something like that.

6/24/2010 1:04:25 PM

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" and on a Sunday night? Isn't that what the wedding reception is??"

this sounds more like a engagement party/shower....

6/24/2010 1:14:46 PM

i know fosters rents out its bar

6/24/2010 1:30:32 PM

Suggestion: Take your respective groups of friends and go spend your last TRUE night as a single doing things that you'd feel guilty doing if you were married.

(Like looking at naked chicks/dudes and/or having her/him rub on your dick/vagina)

6/24/2010 1:37:49 PM

basically what everyone is saying is that it's an overall terrible idea

6/24/2010 1:40:52 PM

^^ THAT'S my kind of party! horny trannies errrwhere

6/24/2010 1:42:23 PM

terrible idea

6/24/2010 1:45:58 PM

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"my fiance and i are is planning a joint bachelor / bachelorette party and I'm too whipped to do anything about it."

I hope you're looking forward to a lifetime of condom use, an 11 o'clock curfew and taking your shoes off become you come inside.



[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 1:52 PM. Reason : x]

6/24/2010 1:50:54 PM

^ i'm glad you're back (nohomo)

6/24/2010 2:12:54 PM

^^it makes TWW life much more entertaining

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 2:23 PM. Reason : ]

6/24/2010 2:21:20 PM

This is horrible idea


Seriously though, what's the point of this. You can do something like this after you're already married. Thus, why bother? Sounds like someone's bday party.

6/24/2010 2:22:18 PM

sounds like the single worst mistake of your life bro

6/24/2010 2:42:57 PM

really?
i see no problem with a joint bachelor/bachelorette party...
but then again there's not much more that i would do if cody wasn't around than if he was...


the sunday night thing is a little off, but maybe they work at a job where they have mondays off?

6/24/2010 2:48:44 PM

^There's no problem with having the party, but change the name and still have separate bachelor/bachelorette parties. B/c this party goes against those by its very definition.

6/24/2010 2:50:32 PM

i guess....

i think what annoys me is that people think of the bachelor/bachelorette party as a last big night with they boys/girls where they can get wild before getting married.
and if that's the case, i thin kyou may be marrying the wrong person

that being said, bachelor and bachelorette parties are no more than just another boys/girls night out for me. maybe a little raunchier.

but also i guess it would be fun to be the center of attention in one

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 2:57 PM. Reason : hehe i dont mean to sound mean. this is just one of those things i never really got ]

6/24/2010 2:53:56 PM

you are supposed to do these things seperate

people who have these joint parties kill me

you're supposed to miss each other



HOW CAN I MISS YOU IF YOU WON'T LEAVE

6/24/2010 2:59:14 PM

^^ please start a feud with Frat-Car...that shit would be TWW gold!

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 3:00 PM. Reason : ^]

6/24/2010 3:00:36 PM

^ehehe, whos that?

i dont wanna feud. i'll bow out of this one.

6/24/2010 3:02:47 PM

^^

Honestly the best label for this "joint" party is a pre-wedding shower...not a bachelorette party.

(ncstatetke is just pissed that I sent the ants to annoy him)

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 3:03 PM. Reason : ^]

6/24/2010 3:03:20 PM

lol.

i guess if we're arguing semantics a bachelor party shouldnt be what it's called.
but wouldn't a shower entail that people are bringing gifts?

6/24/2010 3:06:24 PM

It would entail people are bathing

6/24/2010 3:08:14 PM

ahhhh. and now we have an interesting party idea.

6/24/2010 3:08:52 PM

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"the sunday night thing is a little off, but maybe they work at a job where they have mondays off?"

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"we are planning on having 50-70 ppl"

But it doesn't seem like this is going to be one of those parties where you will need the next day to recuperate

6/24/2010 3:26:41 PM

^^^gifts = buying the bachelor/bachelorette shots at the bar

6/24/2010 3:44:04 PM

All I know is that a bachelor party isn't really a bachelor party until someone's gotten their dick sucked or their pussy ate

6/24/2010 3:47:22 PM

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"Honestly the best label for this "joint" party is a pre-wedding shower...not a bachelorette party."

Or by it's actual name, a Jack & Jill party.

6/24/2010 3:58:19 PM

^ Yea, b/c that sounds like fun..

6/24/2010 4:00:02 PM

*shrug* it's just the name of it...

[Edited on June 24, 2010 at 6:10 PM. Reason : ]

6/24/2010 6:08:22 PM

Jack and Jill went up the hill, each wit' a buck and a quarter...
Jill came down wit' two fifty...DAT FUCKIN' WHORE! OHHHHHHH

6/24/2010 6:31:57 PM

hi5 on glenwood

they have 2 back rooms that you can make in to one, so you can just put the barrier up and be together but separate

6/24/2010 6:33:21 PM

I really agree with Joie on this one. I don't know why it would be that strange to have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. I think it'd be really fun! If you are doing stuff at your bachelor/bachelorette party that could be considered cheating or something you wouldn't want your partner to see, then you PROBABLY shouldn't be doing it. Just sayin'.

6/24/2010 11:41:52 PM

Strip club. Watch your girl get a lap dance and realize that you will never see that again after the wedding.

6/25/2010 12:00:17 AM

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"you are supposed to do these things seperate people who have these joint parties kill me you're supposed to miss each other HOW CAN I MISS YOU IF YOU WON'T LEAVE"

I agree. I don't get the point of a joint party like this AT. ALL.

The whole point is to go out and have fun with you and your friends before you are officially settled into the married life. I think it's a fun tradition and it sucks when girls feel the need to crash on it!

For my bachelorette party we might do a spa day and grab drinks downtown, maybe even get a hotel room down there to finish the night off with a slumber party

6/25/2010 12:07:28 AM

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"I really agree with Joie on this one. I don't know why it would be that strange to have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. I think it'd be really fun! If you are doing stuff at your bachelor/bachelorette party that could be considered cheating or something you wouldn't want your partner to see, then you PROBABLY shouldn't be doing it. Just sayin'."

the whole point of having separate parties is to send the message to your SO that you do, indeed, trust them to NOT do things behind your back that they wouldn't do in front of you

just sayin..

[Edited on June 25, 2010 at 12:20 AM. Reason : h]

6/25/2010 12:12:03 AM

6/25/2010 12:14:06 AM

6/25/2010 8:28:03 AM

I didn't trust my wife until that bachelor party night was over.

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

6/25/2010 8:39:38 AM

i'm not saying separate parties are a bad idea ya'll!

i just dont understand the hate for someone who wants a joint one.
seems sorta analogous to people who think weddings are stupid waste of $$ to those who want one.


the only think i do not agree with is:

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"The whole point is to go out and have fun with you and your friends before you are officially settled into the married life"

i hate this idea of once you get married.... you can't go out and have fun.
negative captain


and also who said the girlwas trying to crash the guys?


(you know i <3 you wolfpackgrrr )

[Edited on June 25, 2010 at 8:41 AM. Reason : fyt]

6/25/2010 8:39:42 AM

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"but then again there's not much more that i would do if cody my fiancée wasn't around than if he she was..."

this...i mean, i'm doing a bachelor party, too, but it's going to be a backpacking or kayaking trip, something a bit more strenuous/adventurous than my fiancée would be interested in doing

yeah, i can (and will) do this sort of thing when i'm married, too, but who cares? the idea of a "bachelor party" is an old one, but the idea of getting wasted while a stripper rubs her sweaty butt all over the front of your pants is relatively modern and simply not anything that i feel i need to do as a single guy

the guy came into the lounge looking specifically for bar rental suggestions, not to take a poll as to whether what he and his fiancée want to do is cool with the rest of you

[Edited on June 25, 2010 at 9:07 AM. Reason : a brief history of bachelor parties: http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1904885,00.html]

6/25/2010 9:06:52 AM

All of your friends would appreciate it if you could split for one night. I promise, it won't be that bad to detach from each other.

6/25/2010 9:49:23 AM

This. This thread. This thread is a horrible idea.

6/25/2010 10:32:33 AM

The two girls in the thread think this is a great idea. Shocker.

6/25/2010 10:52:47 AM

^^^ Girl. Thinks NOT good idea.

[Edited on June 25, 2010 at 11:42 AM. Reason : .]

6/25/2010 11:42:26 AM

set em up

6/25/2010 11:55:19 AM