Slave Famous said:

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"Big plus for guys is we're able to assign a numerical attractiveness value to any female within 10 seconds of meeting her."

so i must ask, when determining the attractiveness of a female is it solely based on appearance or do personality traits factor in?

based on a conversation we were having in the random confessions thread

ladies, feel free to chime in about men

6/15/2011 11:24:31 AM

heh, i was just reading that. And I think the only reason you thought your neighbor was creepy was because he wasn't attractive.

With that being said, I think it is safe to say that it is all based on appearance. At least for the first couple of weeks or so.

6/15/2011 11:26:21 AM

Unless otherwise stated when you're asked to rank someone on a scale of 1-10 for attractiveness we are just talking about looks. When you're asked to rank someone overall, then obviously it's different.

6/15/2011 11:28:02 AM

personality can drop a girl's rating down, but it almost never brings it up


sorry

6/15/2011 11:28:28 AM

70-30 to be safe, bc if you just base it on attractiveness you get 100% crazy

6/15/2011 11:28:45 AM

slave famous then noted that he believed males to be superior to females because our ratings can fluctuate as we get to know the man, while theirs do not. this is why i ask.

6/15/2011 11:30:58 AM

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"the first scale is 100% looks, then the second scale is 70% looks, 20% cooking skill and 10% personality.different for what you are attracted to/looking for So looks are always going to be paramount, but you can make up some ground if you're fun to talk with or a regular Ina Garten in the kitchen."

The first scale is only for clubs and bars.
For me the second scale would be 50/30/20, Looks/Humor and personality/intelligence and conversation.

[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 11:35 AM. Reason : .]

6/15/2011 11:31:37 AM

I have a snap assessment based purely on looks and demeanor, with slight negative adjustments based off whether she seems likely to be a bitch or retarded. Once I get to know someone...yes it fluctuates. Of course, I'm more likely to get to know someone that already has a high score so there's more room for it to drop after I find out their character flaws. Obviously one of my character flaws is being slightly shallow, or at least preferring to have nice scenery with my relationships. Also, I have never really thought about this before so it's subject to revision.

6/15/2011 11:31:40 AM

i know unequivocally if i want to sleep with a woman in about 4 seconds

6/15/2011 11:32:56 AM

when i determine the attractiveness of a male, personality always factors in. it can make a not-so-attractive guy that much more attractive to me.

6/15/2011 11:32:57 AM

so i guess there could be 2 scales - 1 for women you would sleep with and another to determine whether or not they are wifey material

6/15/2011 11:34:52 AM

I usually rate guys in the middle when I first meet them and then their rating either increases or decreases when I get to know them. No guy is ever higher than a 7 upon introduction. If they can make me laugh, carry on a conversation, avoid pick-up lines and hate UNC, then I might go out on a date with them and find out just how attractive they are.

6/15/2011 11:35:01 AM

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"slave famous then noted that he believed males to be superior to females because our ratings can fluctuate as we get to know the man, while theirs do not. this is why i ask."

Yeah that's not true at all for me. I've been completely turned off of girls I thought were attractive because of things they've said. That being said, I'd still sleep with them, just wouldn't date them.

On the other end, girls have become more attractive to me because of their personalities. I have to be at least somewhat physically attracted to them to begin with, though.

[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 11:37 AM. Reason : .]

6/15/2011 11:35:10 AM

women initially and almost immediately fall in one of two categories: bwnable or non

bwnable chicks may become more or less attractive overall over time based on other traits (personality etc...), and may even cross over to the non bwnable side based on these factors, but no matter the high marks in other areas, a non bwnable chick is never gonna become bwnable (save some huge tranformation, like losing a bill)....She might be an awesome person, and become a good friend, but still non bwnable.

each dude will have his own particular standards and criteria, but its always there.

6/15/2011 11:36:33 AM

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"when i determine the attractiveness of a male, personality always factors in. it can make a not-so-attractive guy that much more attractive to me."

but you have to be willing to give someone a chance to show that personality
most people ... men / women alike, never step back and actually try to get to know someone who might not be uber attractive to them based on looks alone

[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 11:37 AM. Reason : sdf]

6/15/2011 11:37:10 AM

First impression - Face, body, how she carries herself. 1 - 15 seconds, longer if conferring with friends.

Second impression - Requires audio input - Voice, confidence, laugh. 30 seconds - 5 minutes upon beginning conversation/eaves dropping.

Lasting rating - Compilation of first and second impressions with the addition of knowledge of female's compatibility (habits, personality, intelligence, etc). 5+ minutes

Special Qualifiers: Speech content. Any time of early meeting or observation. Allows for very early disregard of hotness through any evidence of idiocy in what the chick says (oh my gah the sun is out AGAI- hey look a kitty oh my gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!)

6/15/2011 11:40:04 AM

I'd like to point out that there are three times you judge a women's attractiveness.

1. The first time you see her
2. The first time you see her in a bathing suit
3. The first time you see her naked

Men are allowed to re-evaluate their initial grade at steps 2 and 3. Seemingly pretty girls can be skinny fat, and even girls who look good in a two piece can have weird butt cheeks or AK nipples. We're very fickle, and no flaw goes undocumented.

6/15/2011 11:43:26 AM

It's all about the hot/crazy line.

6/15/2011 11:48:32 AM

appearance draws you in to learn more. personality keeps you or pushes you away.

so i guess determining ONLY attractiveness would be appearance, but determining more towards relationship appeal would be appearance and personality.

[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 11:49 AM. Reason : ^ the vikki mendoza diagonal]

6/15/2011 11:48:43 AM

^^ hahahahahaha

6/15/2011 11:49:22 AM

tits

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6/15/2011 11:50:26 AM

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[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 11:56 AM. Reason : ]

6/15/2011 11:55:39 AM

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"so i must ask, when determining the attractiveness of a female is it solely based on appearance or do personality traits factor in?"

i compulsively make an instant determination of whether or not a girl is attractive (fuckable) the second she enters my field of vision.

in time, through demonstrations of personality and disposition, a girl's attractiveness can potentially fluctuate.

6/15/2011 11:57:10 AM

6/15/2011 11:58:01 AM

It blows my mind that guys first thought is whether or not they would want to put their penis inside her. I don't really know or think about this until at least talking for an hour. Maybe I should read that book about men being from Mars and women from Venus.

6/15/2011 12:14:08 PM

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"It blows my mind that guys first thought is whether or not they would want to put their penis inside her."

i thought that was common knowledge

6/15/2011 12:14:46 PM

I guess it should be, but seems gross to me. Maybe that is just because I think of penises as gross, except for mine of course.

6/15/2011 12:16:03 PM

yeah, i'm sure you judged your old roommates pretty quickly bmel

6/15/2011 12:16:51 PM

you do realize we think about banging like, 99% of the time right

6/15/2011 12:17:06 PM

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"It blows my mind that guys first thought is whether or not they would want to put their penis inside her."

no, the first thing i think about is how much of a great friend she could be and we can have tea parties together at my mom's house.

6/15/2011 12:17:57 PM

I agree, penises are gross. Especially uncircumcised ones.

6/15/2011 12:18:24 PM

I'm not surprised that's a guy's first thought, but what does weird me out a little is how they (most of them, anyway) will still want to bwn someone even knowing she's absolutely retarded just because she's hot. Or mildly attractive and in front of him.

6/15/2011 12:18:45 PM

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"you do realize we think about banging like, 99% of the time right"

haha, again common knowledge

6/15/2011 12:19:05 PM

it's true.

i can't even watch pron with uncut dudes.

6/15/2011 12:19:07 PM

i can't tell if you're being serious - but it's never bothered me

6/15/2011 12:20:17 PM

like a damn sea cucumber

6/15/2011 12:21:14 PM

Worst is when you think he's cut, then after he busts he shrivels back inside the foreskin in like 3 seconds, and you realize you've been had. Marco Banderas has fooled me several times.

6/15/2011 12:21:15 PM

bunch of cock lookers itt.



Seems like it would get boring thinking about sex that much.

6/15/2011 12:23:54 PM

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"haha, again common knowledge"

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"Seems like it would get boring thinking about sex that much."

it's not true

[Edited on June 15, 2011 at 12:24 PM. Reason : .]

6/15/2011 12:24:22 PM

I know my boyfriend thinks about Chemistry at least 20% of the day. But maybe guys can multi-task and think about work and sex at the same time.

6/15/2011 12:26:36 PM

No girl gets to 10 without personality factored in.

But curly hair, nice hips, and an athletic-leaning figure will land you solidly in 8-9 land. I'm also not a fan of a huge rack. And I'm 99% sure that puts me in the minority.

6/15/2011 12:26:37 PM

when i say that, it's not like all day long a stream of pron is going through your head

it's just like, first thoughts always revolve around bwning.

"hi my name is.."
i'd slay/not slay that

6/15/2011 12:27:15 PM

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"I'm not surprised that's a guy's first thought, but what does weird me out a little is how they (most of them, anyway) will still want to bwn someone even knowing she's absolutely retarded just because she's hot. Or mildly attractive and in front of him."

Nailing a retarded/crazy/whatever chick because she's hot and then never calling her again is one thing, and getting into a relationship is something completely different.

6/15/2011 12:29:23 PM

Well yeah. But if I know a guy is an idiot I'd never want to do him, not matter how hot he was.

6/15/2011 12:30:08 PM

girls are silly

6/15/2011 12:31:18 PM

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"I agree, penises are gross. Especially uncircumcised ones."

I'd choose uncircumcised over circumcised.

6/15/2011 12:32:16 PM

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"Well yeah. But if I know a guy is an idiot I'd never want to do him, not matter how hot he was."

Would you work with someone who was kind of a dick, if they were really good at their job?

Same thing, except with fucking.

6/15/2011 12:33:50 PM

personality can drop a girl's rating down, but it almost never brings it up


sorry

6/15/2011 12:36:30 PM

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"I know my boyfriend thinks about Chemistry at least 20% of the day. But maybe guys can multi-task and think about work and sex at the same time."

"Need to smooth this data so that it's differentiable. Also, titties."

6/15/2011 12:37:18 PM

^lol

6/15/2011 12:41:20 PM