ralockle Veteran 276 Posts user info edit post |
So if Bruce calls hisself a woman now and felt like a woman when winning gold in the Olympics, shouldn't he just give his gold medal back cause technically that's cheating right. 7/17/2015 11:11:49 PM |
ViolentMAW All American 4127 Posts user info edit post |
Why do all you dissenters care so much about this woman? Let it go. You are contributing to the media storm around it. I'm so sick of hearing hypotheticals about transgenders.
BUT WHAT IF THIS AND WHAT IF THEY WERE IN THAT PRISON AND RAN WITH THIS
I DON'T FUCKING CARE
Does it hurt you? No. Move on. 7/17/2015 11:31:46 PM |
TreeTwista10 minisoldr 148450 Posts user info edit post |
because weirdos are interesting 7/17/2015 11:41:44 PM |
ViolentMAW All American 4127 Posts user info edit post |
I'm just tired of hypotheticals. 7/17/2015 11:47:34 PM |
ViolentMAW All American 4127 Posts user info edit post |
What if TreeTwista10 and I decided to have glorious anal sex. Magically a centaur appeared out of his ass. It's sex was undeclared. We rode it into the night easily passing Marion Jones for the Gold. It destroyed Ronda Rousey in 2 seconds. Some called for it's head but no one cared because it only beat women. Our glorious centaur child grew to 7 feet 3 inches. It destroyed Lebron in the NBA final of 2019. Discussions over whether a centaur should be able to play basketball arose. Bob Costas' died of a heart attack trying to defend that centaur. What a world.
What a world. 7/18/2015 12:00:02 AM |
TreeTwista10 minisoldr 148450 Posts user info edit post |
When there are standard protocols and procedures in place in society based on sex, whether it be something you encounter all the time like bathrooms or filling out your sex on any type of application or form, something like a person with one sex and another gender make those hypotheticals something to discuss. The Olympics doesn't care about gender though, only sex. 7/18/2015 12:02:26 AM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Why do all you dissenters care so much about this woman? Let it go. " |
I don't think it's fair that he gets to pretend he something different from his actual self - indeed, gets lauded for it.
I'm not allowed to do that. If I want to have a much larger penis, nobody cares - I'm stuck with the penis I've got. And if I said like "Well my real penis is much bigger," people would just laugh at me/call me a lunatic.
I don't think this dude's distortion of reality should be treated as fact - let alone applauded. If you want to believe in fantasies, fine, but when people start believing along with you, that's going to get on my nerves.
Fuck all this "gender vs. sex" bullshit. It's a man, baby.7/18/2015 12:15:47 AM |
ViolentMAW All American 4127 Posts user info edit post |
I'm your man :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D 7/18/2015 12:47:57 AM |
UJustWait84 All American 25821 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "If I want to have a much larger penis, nobody cares - I'm stuck with the penis I've got" |
sucks2bu
some of us well endowed folks take pity on the less fortunate. again, TWW is full of jealousy 7/18/2015 3:20:48 AM |
HUR All American 17732 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "What if TreeTwista10 and I decided to have glorious anal sex. Magically a centaur appeared out of his ass. It's sex was undeclared. We rode it into the night easily passing Marion Jones for the Gold. It destroyed Ronda Rousey in 2 seconds. Some called for it's head but no one cared because it only beat women. Our glorious centaur child grew to 7 feet 3 inches. It destroyed Lebron in the NBA final of 2019. Discussions over whether a centaur should be able to play basketball arose. Bob Costas' died of a heart attack trying to defend that centaur. What a world.
What a world.
" |
What an epic post. Lolz
Truthfully I don't give a shit that Caitlyn was a he and decided to chop his dick off and "be" a woman. We live in a free country and that's his right if it's what makes him happy though it's my right to sit there and scratch my head. I wish this shit was not new headline worthy.
My only concern was the hypothetical I presented earlier that no one answered. If Caitlyn was 40 years younger should he/she be allowed to compete in the Olympics in the woman's track events. Biologically he has the advantage of being a male yet he identifies as a female.7/18/2015 4:10:38 AM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
There's a whole host of experiences that go in to being a woman. We can be cute and be all, "Some women can't have babies! Does that make them not a woman?!?!?" But, really, I don't know if I can have babies. I've never been pregnant. And, now that I'm old, it's something I have to think about on dates. Can I make babies for this man who's trying to be cool but clearly wants babies in his life right now? (I don't think I can. I was raised primarily by my father, and he is amazing. I doubt that I'll ever meet a man for whom I would actually carry another life in my belly and split myself open to do whatever it is that goes into birthing babies.)
I've also been accused of posing as a man. A gentleman--and he did identify as he--in a neon green, sparkly tube top wanted to know "what I was." I had no clue what he was talking about, but we chatted, and I eventually discovered that my baggy jeans and baseball cap were baffling to him. He couldn't understand why a woman wouldn't want to leverage her sexual appeal all the time.
A lot of you have been suggesting that gender is a social construct, and it's not binary. Well, if it's a social construct, it's definitely binary...that's how we constructed it, dipshits. Still, if we need to include people who don't feel like the gender that society treats them as, then I'm down with it. I won't bat an eye.
But, in my head, I will always roll my eyes at the woman who's posing as a caricature of a woman.
We need a third gender. 7/18/2015 7:01:23 AM |
rjrumfel All American 23027 Posts user info edit post |
And that is part of my whole point. Being a woman isn't just having boobs, putting on some makeup and nail polish, walking around in high heels and wearing a dress. Being a woman is the net result of a lifetime of experiences, both positive and negative. To go and call yourself a woman after spending 50 years as a man and not having, but just wishing for those experiences, is discounting women everywhere. 7/18/2015 8:08:13 AM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
Your "whole point" is meaningless to me. I like to read, and I have not read hardly any of the bullshit in this thread. 7/18/2015 8:36:54 AM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "sucks2bu
some of us well endowed folks take pity on the less fortunate. again, TWW is full of jealousy" |
you didn't answer my point at all
and I'm not jealous - I'd rather have my two balls than a slightly bigger dick.7/18/2015 9:28:44 AM |
synapse play so hard 60939 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Being a woman..." |
WTF do you know about being a woman?]7/18/2015 10:09:03 AM |
Kickstand All American 11598 Posts user info edit post |
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3163299/Caitlyn-Jenner-s-reps-demanded-ESPYs-award-exchange-PR-plugs-Diane-Sawyer-interview.html This would explain the attention whoring if true. 7/18/2015 10:36:41 AM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "To go and call yourself a woman after spending 50 years as a man and not having, but just wishing for those experiences, is discounting women everywhere." |
rjrmfuel, the hero real women needed all along.
[Edited on July 18, 2015 at 3:45 PM. Reason : .]7/18/2015 3:44:35 PM |
JCE2011 Suspended 5608 Posts user info edit post |
Transgenderism and feminism can't coexist.
Quote : | "We live in a free country and that's his right if it's what makes him happy though it's my right to sit there and scratch my head. I wish this shit was not new headline worthy." |
This. Though it makes you a bigot if you scratch your head.7/18/2015 8:59:15 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
wrong, transgenderism and TERF can't coexist. all sensible feminists are trans inclusive. 7/18/2015 10:57:16 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
wrong, transgenderism and TERF can't coexist. all sensible feminists are trans inclusive. 7/18/2015 10:57:17 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
wrong, transgenderism and TERF can't coexist. all sensible feminists are trans inclusive. 7/18/2015 10:57:17 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
wrong, transgenderism and TERF can't coexist. all sensible feminists are trans inclusive. 7/18/2015 10:57:17 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
lol my phone hates tdub and vice versa
[Edited on July 18, 2015 at 11:03 PM. Reason : .] 7/18/2015 10:57:49 PM |
Kurtis636 All American 14984 Posts user info edit post |
Shit man, the most current wave of feminists is barely tolerant of anything let alone trans people. 4th wave feminists are a strange bunch. Nobody infantalizes women as effectively as a very passionate 4th wave feminist. 7/18/2015 11:05:07 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
scary strawman-wave feminists you mean 7/18/2015 11:09:28 PM |
Kurtis636 All American 14984 Posts user info edit post |
I guess. There's nothing more entertaining than watching the social justice crowds eat their own. 7/18/2015 11:12:21 PM |
ViolentMAW All American 4127 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "And I do think you can be fine with someone doing the whole transgender thing while at the same time thinking "that's a dude who's totally butchered his body."" |
I feel the same. But soon this will all be passe, until we start halving horses and centauring it up.7/18/2015 11:17:58 PM |
TreeTwista10 minisoldr 148450 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | ""- Menstrual cramps. Nope, pretty sure he's never had a period."
so? Some women never ovulate or menstruate. Are they not women?" |
So? Some cats don't excrete pheremones from their anal glands. Are they not cats? 7/18/2015 11:24:47 PM |
JCE2011 Suspended 5608 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "wrong, transgenderism and TERF can't coexist. all sensible feminists are trans inclusive." |
Well the definition of feminsim is: the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.
If the difference between man and woman is simply wearing a dress and getting tit-implants, and painting finger nails (Bruce's quote), then I guess feminism is no longer needed. (Since sex is just something we can pick and choose whenever, based on what our gender is at the time we decide).7/19/2015 2:56:08 AM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
I think it's more complicated than that. And I hope I'm not being taken as intolerant. Most of my remarks are specific to Caitlyn and her views on what it means to be a woman.
To me, a critical look at her decision could foster an interesting conversation about what it means to be a woman or a man. I don't know exactly how I would describe it, and I certainly wouldn't want to define maleness when I'm not a dude. The only thing I've been able to articulate is just some random experiences in the lives of myself and some women I know.
Again, gender is binary because that's how we constructed it. And that has caused some problems for many of us, including some very severe ones. But I thought we had worked hard to loosen up the gendered rules and roles we place on others and ourselves. Still, I understand that they want to be treated a certain way, not just get to behave a certain way...so attempts to change gender make sense.
Still, what doesn't make sense is finally getting your gender reassignment and the first thing you do is get photographed in lingerie on the cover of a magazine. 7/19/2015 7:56:38 AM |
afripino All American 11425 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "She's already procreated. She may not have given birth, but she has kids. Are barren women who have to adopt no longer women?" |
there's a distinct difference between not having the equipment and having non-working equipment. women have the equipment to give birth whether it works or not. men don't. how is this even up for debate?
[Edited on July 20, 2015 at 9:32 AM. Reason : ]7/20/2015 9:32:15 AM |
colangus All American 749 Posts user info edit post |
I'm coming in late to the discussion, so I don't know if this has been mentioned yet...
First off, I'm all for marriage equality and equal rights for the LGBs. I believe that these people are truly born that way.
But I'm having difficulty understanding why we should accept the new gender of a trans. Looking at it as a disorder, when has society ever accepted a person's disorder instead of treating it?
In other words, if I'm suffering from schizophrenia and have delusions of grandeur that I'm Jesus Christ, people aren't going to indulge me and cater to my fucked up belief. "Yes, you are Jesus Christ."
How is this not any different? 7/20/2015 12:26:24 PM |
UJustWait84 All American 25821 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "there's a distinct difference between not having the equipment and having non-working equipment. women have the equipment to give birth whether it works or not. men don't. how is this even up for debate? " |
people have made identical arguments about gay marriage and yet gay and lesbian couples still continue to reproduce.7/20/2015 12:51:28 PM |
rjrumfel All American 23027 Posts user info edit post |
I fully support gay marriage. But that has to be the dumbest attempt at a point that you've ever made. For a gay couple to reproduce, you're no longer talking about a couple. You need a third party. Now granted, some heterosexual couples who have issues reproducing must go to a third party as well, but that is the exception to the rule. For for every gay couple, you need a third person to provide something for reproduction. 7/20/2015 2:28:41 PM |
afripino All American 11425 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "people have made identical arguments about gay marriage and yet gay and lesbian couples still continue to reproduce." |
please...tell me how two men can make a baby. I'm really curious to know.
[Edited on July 20, 2015 at 2:52 PM. Reason : rubbing two sticks together makes fire, not a baby.]7/20/2015 2:40:37 PM |
rjrumfel All American 23027 Posts user info edit post |
They would have to have a surrogate. But again, you're no longer talking about a couple. You're talking about a threesome. And yes, hetero couples do this too, but it's the exception, not the rule, where with gay couples, it would be the rule. 7/20/2015 3:09:24 PM |
dtownral Suspended 26632 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "there's a distinct difference between not having the equipment and having non-working equipment. women have the equipment to give birth whether it works or not. men don't. how is this even up for debate? " |
what about intersex people? if someone has only some parts, or has parts of both, will you allow them to identify as a man or woman?7/20/2015 4:14:36 PM |
Smath74 All American 93278 Posts user info edit post |
Not sure where this thread is at this point (not going back to re-read) but i think i've mentioned this before... if someone (of sound mind) wants to change their sex/gender then more power to them. it doesn't affect me in any appreciable way.
The one exception is bathrooms. I would have a problem if someone with a penis is using the same school/public bathroom as my little girl, no matter what gender they identify as. People should go to the bathroom according to their current sex as defined by their genitals. If a person with a penis identifies as female and they have a major issue using the boy's room, i'd support letting them use a single-stall bathroom (like a teacher bathroom or one of those "family" bathrooms). That seems to be a fair and equitable solution. 7/20/2015 4:22:06 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
^ Fuck it...just let 'em go:
7/20/2015 4:27:58 PM |
afripino All American 11425 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "what about intersex people? if someone has only some parts, or has parts of both, will you allow them to identify as a man or woman?" |
well then they and only they should be allowed to choose. Caitlyn Jenner is not one of these. Next.
[Edited on July 20, 2015 at 4:44 PM. Reason : also, in the case of "some" parts, are they some male parts or some female parts?]7/20/2015 4:32:43 PM |
dtownral Suspended 26632 Posts user info edit post |
some people have some of both
and ^ means that the argument about women being women because of their parts is thrown out 7/20/2015 9:23:30 PM |
JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
^ wait a minute...what DOES define a woman then? because every time somebody suggests a reasonable criterion, you or UJustWait mention some bizarre exception to which that criterion might, by the farthest stretches of interpretation, not apply
so IS there a definite criterion? because if there isn't, then it's all a gray area, and I should be able to stroll into a "women's" locker room and be like "Hey, ladies. I'm gonna pull my cock out and whack it while I stare at your titties."
on what basis would you forbid me from doing that? it's not like "man" and "woman" are meaningful labels.] 7/20/2015 10:27:43 PM |
afripino All American 11425 Posts user info edit post |
^^ok....you're trying to make a simple statement more complicated than it is, so I'll spell it out for you.
If you were born with NO lady parts, you are not a woman If you were born with NO man parts, you are not a man If you are a super special situation where you have some of both, then sure...choose
Clear enough? And if you're still confused, a vagina is not a man part. Not sure if you skipped that chapter based on your circular logic.
[Edited on July 20, 2015 at 10:36 PM. Reason : bonus: if you get partial credit for one or the other, you round up.] 7/20/2015 10:34:54 PM |
Smath74 All American 93278 Posts user info edit post |
TRANSGENDER REPORTER ASSAULTS AND THREATENS THE LIFE OF CONSERVATIVE BEN SHAPIRO - CAUGHT ON VIDEO
https://youtu.be/LwtzxCzVky0?t=5m 7/20/2015 11:09:01 PM |
HUR All American 17732 Posts user info edit post |
I glad afripino and I can agree on something 7/21/2015 12:01:37 AM |
rjrumfel All American 23027 Posts user info edit post |
^^^I think where the confusion is coming in afripino, is that some of the men ITT clearly have vaginas. It is why they can apply empathy so well in this situation.
Wait, no, they can't, because Bruce doesn't have a vagina. 7/21/2015 7:17:23 AM |
afripino All American 11425 Posts user info edit post |
^^me too. we're making strides in race relations ITT 7/21/2015 7:30:11 AM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
meh. not worth it.
in a transgirl/cisgirl bathroom situation I suspect there is an exponentially higher chance that the transgirl gets bullied relentlessly than the cisgirl experiences some sort of penis voodoo magic or rape or whatever the fuck you people are worried about happening through the stall dividers.
[Edited on July 25, 2015 at 4:28 PM. Reason : .] 7/25/2015 4:23:48 PM |
HUR All American 17732 Posts user info edit post |
So is Caitlyn dates a chick is it considered a lesbian or straight 7/25/2015 6:02:06 PM |
synapse play so hard 60939 Posts user info edit post |
Sweet baby Jesus you are a special kind of stupid. 7/26/2015 12:28:15 PM |