I say hurl. If you blow chunks and she comes back, she's yours. If you spew and she bolts, then it was never meant to be.

7/7/2008 4:57:18 PM

haha of all the advice in this thread- i think elkaybie's is most likely to work

7/7/2008 4:59:13 PM

there must have been a fear of commitment


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7/7/2008 5:00:05 PM

TreeTwista and elkaybie with the joint wayne's world agenda!

7/7/2008 5:09:38 PM

i thought that was planned

7/7/2008 5:11:25 PM

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"wtf.....if you didn't want them enough to stay with them in the first place then please tell me what in the hell they are missing"

I was referring to if they might want to do the breaking up.

7/7/2008 5:14:08 PM

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"they don't come back. get over it."

i'm beginning to buy into this

7/7/2008 5:26:56 PM

haha i love casey's explanation of it all

im beginning to see what you guys mean and that I should have limited contact, but still keep the contact up...and that maybe eventually if she really still does feel the way I think she does...she'll come back, and its nothing I can do, so I might as well not try and push it...that only makes it worse.

just really hard to do, but im gonna try.

7/7/2008 5:28:18 PM

Whatever you do, if you decide to break up permanently, don't be "that ex" who is constantly calling and asking for money.

7/7/2008 5:31:48 PM

Does it bother you that she banging someone else right now??

7/7/2008 5:43:54 PM

im hopin its true

7/7/2008 5:45:04 PM

yea actually it does
even tho she swears up and down she isnt, which i half believe her.

7/7/2008 5:45:16 PM

my $0.02

You are 22 years old. There is no need to be in a hurry to find someone. After a rollercoaster ride, sometimes you just need to take a seat on a park bench and chill out for a minute.

I know it hurts right now. It is going to hurt. But to quote Usher...sometimes you just have to let it burn. Don't go looking for a rebound. Just be you. Give yourself some time. Go about your normal life. I wouldn't call her, or text her, or IM her. Keep yourself occupied. Do something you enjoy. Do what you did before you met her. Don't dwell in the past. Be single and enjoy it. That is something that I regret not doing sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife, but I wish I would have been single more before I met her. Anyways, I do believe that if it was meant to be, ya'll will reunite. I say this because I had this agreement with an ex before I met my wife, but I can see now that it wasn't meant to be...I am right where I need to be.

Quote :

"Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs That just because he doesn't answer doesn't mean he don't care Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers"

7/7/2008 6:16:16 PM

Honestly....

We are all in a hurry to find someone, and it sucks because we all get scared sometimes. I know I have....

Take two weeks, with no contact. Then look at your situation. The first week will be a bit tough...but the second week will give you some clarity.

You have to take a step outside of your picture to look at it, or post of Tdub.

Good luck with everything. If you want to send a pm, just to talk, that's cool.

7/7/2008 6:23:02 PM

kinda like it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Both have their flaws. Either way, there's too many fish in the sea to get stuck on one.

7/7/2008 6:25:05 PM