no, it's kind of sad. i'm probably not even going to like any of these people, and the couple that i do i'll probably lose interest in once we have cheap drunken sex.

6/24/2014 3:58:55 PM

you always come across as just the biggest douchebag

6/24/2014 3:59:44 PM

hahaha

don't know him enough to agree but the comment made me lol

6/24/2014 4:35:37 PM

Don't think Jeepin comes off as a douchebag...but he's become more "I don't give a fuck" and cynical as his dating life has declined.

6/24/2014 4:48:55 PM

get off my lawn!

6/24/2014 4:59:40 PM

Whoa, whoa, whoa! There's nothing forever alone about cheap, drunken sex.

Forever alone is a lifestyle that takes serious commitment. It involves body pillows, cheap vodka, and going to the gym for hours because you literally have nothing better to do. Also, it helps burn off extra energy so you don't run the risk of humping a stranger out of sheer desperation and utter lack of human contact.

6/24/2014 5:33:49 PM

Hey now, after I got suddenly (and completely unexpectedly. Not only am I upset about the complete rejection, my mind is still boggled about why/how. It's probably a hilarious story to everyone but me. PM me for LAWLS) shut-the-fuck-down/rejected just over a month ago, I've adopted the forever alone lifestyle...and it doesn't contain any of the awesomeness that are body pillows or the gym

More like sitting at home and trying, outrageously unsuccessfully, to get the entire thing out of my head

6/24/2014 6:19:30 PM

I saw you make a post about that horrible person who "rejected" you. I don't think I responded. But what you described was seriously terrible, by the way. I realize it's not the kind of thing you can just get over. But, if there were some way for you to not waste another thought on that nonsense, I would try to make it happen. People suck, and I'm genuinely sorry you crossed paths with such a crappy person.

6/24/2014 6:32:16 PM

Oh man, I didn't think I even posted the details.

But you're right about needing to find things to keep me occupied. I just don't have many friends in the area to go out with so it's all on me...and I suck.

Just checked - pretty sure I never posted about it...YOU'RE JUST ANOTHER WOMAN FUCKING WITH MY HEAD

jk jk

[Edited on June 24, 2014 at 6:39 PM. Reason : and it really wasn't a rejection, but it's easier to say that without explaining]

6/24/2014 6:34:38 PM

You didn't post details, but the gist was enough. You went on some trip together, and once y'all got back, she texted you that you're a piece of shit, and she never wanted to see you again. LOL, sorry for the trip down memory lane. But, yeah, you coulda behaved pretty poorly on that trip, and you'd still deserve more than name-calling and no contact. What she did was awful.

If you're ever in Raleigh, I'll hang out! I like eating wings and sitting quietly.

6/24/2014 6:40:05 PM

shit

But thanks. I was thinking the same...I'd have to have been pretty shitty to even come close to deserving any of that. AND I WASN'T! So I don't get it at all.

But yea.

Raleigh would be like 30ish min for me. I would definitely be down. So, watch how you just offer things like that.

6/24/2014 6:43:48 PM

i just joined
and
woof
i will forever be single

6/24/2014 7:58:55 PM

Oh yea, I joined (again) last week. I've barely got a profile and I don't use the damn thing enough. This will work like a charm

A chick did message me and started talking a lot...you know, before she deleted her account lol

[Edited on June 24, 2014 at 8:00 PM. Reason : ]

6/24/2014 8:00:11 PM

im so afraid to put my pic up bc my confidence level is in the shitter big time

6/24/2014 8:21:55 PM

Come on, if I can get up the nerve anyone should be able to

6/24/2014 8:31:18 PM

maybe ill post a pic of me putting fat tits into my mouth for old times sake

6/24/2014 8:41:32 PM

so this is a new girl?

6/24/2014 11:26:32 PM

Quote :

"Well I can guarantee you that I will always keep your attention, continuously carry on a conversation, show you an amazing time mentally/physically, and will be more intriguing then any woman/girl you have ever dated."

you can not be real.

[Edited on June 25, 2014 at 2:11 PM. Reason : then/than alert!]

6/25/2014 2:10:36 PM

Aha, she's gonna captivate you forever.

6/25/2014 2:38:38 PM

Just started using this because of TWW. Yea not going to well. lol. No one replying.

6/25/2014 4:35:19 PM

I've initiated two entire conversations

and actually got responses

pure. luck.

I don't even have a desire to talk to them

6/25/2014 4:38:05 PM

i got one number within 2 messages. granted it was a girl i met out a few weeks ago so the ice had already been broken. going to ride bikes with her this weekend.

then one girl who messaged me first, exchanged a few more and now she's gone ghost. and i've sent 3-4 others that haven't replied yet.


and the girl from the post above, who messaged me first, isn't even anywhere close by, and has to be a troll, catfish, or is just batshit crazy. but i'm replying to just to play along.

so yeah, it's only so-so thus far.

6/25/2014 4:55:15 PM

Dating seems a lot more confusing now compared to 5 years ago.

6/25/2014 5:15:56 PM

^^What would constitute better than "so-so" in your opinion?

6/25/2014 6:47:48 PM

After a few talks and seemed to be going good, I got lets set something up. So, I get ready to reply that morning and she had deactivated her account . It would have worked out good due to this is my weekend off

6/26/2014 4:36:09 AM

^^haha i don't know really? i never have super high expectations when i get back on these sites. One girl seems really cool and we have a ton in common, but she's a smoker. and while I dated and lived with a smoker for 3 years, and have nothing against those that do, it's just not something I want to do again.

6/26/2014 8:05:21 AM

Quote :

"^ should start hanging out where sawahash"

Ha, you trying to say I should be part of her harem? Nooooo thanks


I've actually got a date this weekend. She seems intelligent and interesting, but she doesn't quite lead the active, healthy lifestyle I'm kind of hoping for.

6/26/2014 12:25:39 PM

^^I can't quite tell if you're seriously looking for love or not, but I do hope you find it.

Maybe you could ask the women who aren't so compatible to go hunt down some other women for you.

6/26/2014 6:46:55 PM

^^ Intelligent, interesting people rarely have healthy lifestyles.

6/27/2014 4:09:19 AM

I know plenty of people who are interesting and lead healthy lifestyles

6/27/2014 5:42:17 AM

we've got us a regular old Laurel Thatcher Ulrich in here

Quote :

"^^I can't quite tell if you're seriously looking for love or not,"

looking for love in all the wrong places

6/27/2014 7:59:44 AM

0% Reply. fat chicks everywhere.

[Edited on June 27, 2014 at 3:00 PM. Reason : .]

6/27/2014 2:59:39 PM

lol

6/27/2014 3:20:00 PM

hahaha, I did the "my best face" thing

All my faces are the worst

Except 18-22 years olds love the shit out of one of them

6/28/2014 9:23:36 AM

I went out with a girl from the internet last night. Seemed like things went really well and we had a very engaging conversation etc.

About 5 mins after I got back to my car I get a text from her talking about how she wasn't attracted to him that she meant to send it to one of her girlfriends and accidentally sent it to me instead.

BRUTAL

6/28/2014 9:59:45 AM

ouch

I'm never dating again

6/28/2014 10:24:32 AM

^^ "accidentally" sent to you

6/28/2014 10:46:05 AM

^ Why are some women such bitches?

*let's ignore that men are the same way*

6/28/2014 10:47:00 AM

^^ her follow up text apologizing profusely sealed to me that it was truly accidental

regardless, i was sad for a second, then laughed about it and moved on

6/28/2014 11:21:27 AM

Quote :

"I know plenty of people who are interesting and lead healthy lifestyles"

I'm not saying these people don't exist.

I'm saying that a majority of interesting people have better things to do than consistently make healthy choices.

6/28/2014 11:36:47 AM

^^I'm glad you posted. Not that it matters but: "I dunno...I wasn't really attracted to him" is one thing women say to their friends after like 95% of first dates.

I'm not sure why, but apparently, they're really expecting to be very attracted to the dude after hanging out with him a couple hours--even though they've never worked that way otherwise.

Regardless, I'm glad you had a laugh about it.

6/28/2014 12:08:08 PM

http://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/28cf70/so_i_got_this_message_today_it_was_too_big_to/

6/28/2014 4:40:02 PM

Quote :

"I'm saying that a majority of interesting people have better things to do than consistently make healthy choices."

I'm just going to go ahead and make a bumper sticker that i can slap on the 26.2, 13.1, 5k stuff i see on cars.

6/29/2014 3:15:39 AM

Quote :

"he's become more "I don't give a fuck" and cynical as his dating life has declined"

Think it is Charlotte chicks. I've never been pessimistic about the dating scene anywhere i lived until I became single here.

I think a big thing is the culture here. I have more of a West Coast mentality. Most of the girls here fall in 3 camps into the bible/I love Jesus mentality, are narcissistic bitches that only care about dating investment bankers, or are normal having secular hobbies and realistic expectations thus they are already taken.

As such i'm narrowed down to very small pool that is further wittled down by looking for non-smokers and girls that are active and like working out or playing outside.

Honestly was looking forward to leaving but am confident that i'm about to get this really awesome job opportunity here. Guess i'll be left sorting through the rubble.

[Edited on June 30, 2014 at 11:07 PM. Reason : ;]

[Edited on June 30, 2014 at 11:08 PM. Reason : l]

6/30/2014 11:06:53 PM

Dude, you're fucking crazy.

[Edited on June 30, 2014 at 11:32 PM. Reason : LOL]

6/30/2014 11:21:28 PM

Quote :

"I'm saying that a majority of interesting people have better things to do than consistently make healthy choices."

aint that the fucking truth


I joined plenty of fish today because a friend told me to.


BUT

I wrote a bunch of messages ranging from total dick to kinda creative

interested to see who responds


also bridget had a great response but edited it for succintness I guess, regardless it was funny

[Edited on June 30, 2014 at 11:36 PM. Reason : .]

6/30/2014 11:33:12 PM

Quote :

"I have more of a West Coast mentality."

7/1/2014 7:57:39 AM

ITT vinylbandit making excuses for being fat

7/1/2014 7:59:20 AM

i'm fat because i have a shitty diet and don't exercise beyond two or three six-mile bike rides and one hockey game a week

that has nothing to do with the fact that most people who:

- exercise profusely
- eat perfectly
- don't drink or use drugs

are BORING AS SHIT

7/2/2014 3:26:52 AM

^
That's completey different than...

Quote :

"I'm saying that a majority of interesting people have better things to do than consistently make healthy choices. "

7/2/2014 8:21:47 AM